So. My husband and I are basically complete opposites and that is a huge reason why I love him so. He shows me and teaches me things that I wouldn’t normally think of doing a certain way but only after I fight him over it because me being me…I think that my way is the only right way. Yeah…I said it. I feel that way because it is how I’ve done it for so long and it fucking works so why not? But I’m sure he feels that way too. Lately, there has been slightly clashing because of our differrences and the subject of change and changes were brought up. He believes that I should be open to it and I’ve been thinking about it a lot. I feel like I have been open to it quite a bit especially within the past few months with moving and trying new things plus will be moving again soon. I feel like all of these changes are bonuses to our lives. I also want to hold on to things from the past too though from my world like my mom’s recipes and traditions just like I’d like to do with some of his faimlies too. Can’t I have both? Change and staying the same.